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Living life one dream at a time.

Words of the Wise

"What after all is a halo? It's only one more thing to keep clean."
-Christopher Fry, The Lady's not for Burning

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
-Mary Anne Radmacher

"Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more."

-Erica Jong

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our Light, not our Darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you NOT to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the World. There is nothing enlightening about shrinking so that other people won’t feel unsure around you...We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us; It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. As we let our own Light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
-Nelson Mandella, 1994 Inaugural Speech

"Until this moment I had believed forgiveness to be a special virtue, a beneficence God expected of good people. But it wasn't that at all. Forgiveness was an instinct, a desperate impulse to stay connected to the people you needed, no matter what their betrayals."
-Monica Wood, My Only Story

"If neurotic is wanting two mutually exclusive things at one and the same time, then I'm neurotic as hell. I'll be flying back and forth between one mutually exclusive thing and another for the rest of my days."
-Sylvia Plath, The Bell Jar

"The most important things are the hardest to say. They are the things you get ashamed of, because words diminish them—words shrink things that seemed limitless when they were in your head to no more than living size when they're brought out. But it's more than that, isn't it? The most important things lie too close to wherever your secret heart is buried, like landmarks to a treasure your enemies would love to steal away. And you may make revelations that cost you dearly only to have people look at you in a funny way, not understanding what you've said at all, or why you thought it was so important that you almost cried when you were saying it. That's the worst, I think. When the secret stays locked within not for the want of a teller but for the want of an understanding ear."
-Stephen King

"Have you even been in love? Horrible, isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They don't ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you, or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like 'maybe we should just be friends' or 'how very perceptive' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love."
-Neil Gaiman, Sandman: The Kindly Ones

"Being always overavid, I demand from those I love a love equal to mine which, being balanced people, they cannot supply."
-Sylvia Ashton-Warner

"What I need is someone who will make me do what I can."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson


"You know, when you crawl that far down into the abyss, you really shouldn't bring stuff back up with you. Some things are meant to live in the dark. Your blog is like one of those fish with no eyes. Only slightly more disturbing."
Tuesday, February 12, 2008

The Gospel according to Paul.

Paul Simon, that is.

As I was on my way into work this morning, my iPod was playing a selection of tunes from Paul and his old buddy Art. As I merrily sang along at the top of my lungs, Paul told me something interesting.

"Hey, I've got nothing to do today but smile." *

So you know what? I decided I'd make my day the same way. Truly, I had a lot to do - but nothing that couldn't wait until tomorrow.

I went into the office, and spent the day smiling. I caught up with some people I hadn't seen lately, and I took my friend Greg to lunch at Chipotle, where I scored him some free tacos. I teased my boss about catching a virus from a hooker (okay, her last name is Hooker, but that made it even funnier), and I found the French lyrics to a song my assistant has been listening to. I translated them into English and printed them out for her, which made HER smile, too.

I left a bit early because it's snowing like hell (AGAIN - I'm starting to think this guy is a hazy shade of winter), and as soon as A gets home from Scrabble Club, I'm going to take him out for dinner at the new restaurant here in town.

Later, I'm going to shovel my driveway and do some yoga.

Then I'm going to eat a cookie.

And who knows? Maybe tomorrow I'll buy a pack of cigarettes and Mrs. Wagner pies, then walk off to look for America. If I hitchhike from Saginaw, it will take me about four days to find you. We can be lovers **, and marry our fortunes together.


* A big smooch to whoever can name that tune the fastest. Googling is cheating, for the record.

** No, peas. Not you. Dudes only.

Edited to add - the new restaurant in town is fabulous! We're stuffed. I may have to forego the cookie.

And the plow guy came while we were gone, and didn't even kill my driveway! I only had to shovel the sidewalk. I'm officially happy :)

8 comments:

Jonathan Ahl said...

Only Living Boy in New York. Paul wrote it when he and Artie were on the outs, and almost broken up.

The references to Tom and a plane arriving on time in the opening line refer to Artie (who was Tom when they performed as Tom and Jerry early in their career) leaving to go to Mexico to film Catch-22. Art's acting career was a major issue between the two.

Christine said...

I just KNEW you would be the one to get it! After all, you're the only person cool enough to name your cat Julio (down by the school yard).

Um, if I smooch you on Sunday, will your wife hit me?

I don't want our children to be scarred for life over a chick fight or anything.

Jonathan Ahl said...

Anita's not the jealous type, but just in case, let's make it a hug and a metaphoric smooch.

By the way, "Metaphoric Smooch" would be a great name for a band.

Christine said...

Whew. That works for me.

Metaphoric Smooch definitely beats Tom and Jerry, I'll give you that.

And by the way, as I was getting out of my car this morning, Hazy Shade of Winter was on. My assistant was walking by and said, "Hey, I didn't know somebody remade the Bangles tune!"

It was almost enough to make a grown smoocher cry.

Christine said...

I got all excited when you said you were gonna eat a cookie...

Christine said...

Until I said I was going to forego it?

What is the past tense of forego, anyway? Forewent?

Anonymous said...

I'm thrilled that you had a happy day! *yay*

Christine said...

I dunno...I forgot...lol